Monday, February 23, 2009

ARR-Rocks!!!!

          I was very happy when i heard that AR.Rahman won 2 oscars.After hearing his speech i have become a fan of him.He got the most prestigious awards in the film industry at a very early age.Inspite of all that he is very simple,devoted and down to earth person.In an award function at USA and in huge crowd of americans he told these words in tamil "ella pugazhum iraivanukke".I dont think there will be anyone who doesn't like such calm and composed personality.He made all of us feel proud.

Ten of his best compositions are
1.slumdog
2.roja
3.rangeela
4.bombay
5.dil se
6.taal
7.kandukonden kandu konden
8.zubeidaa
9.lagaan
10.rang de basanti

and there are lots more......

I have written this blog to share my happiness with everyone of you...

Monday, February 16, 2009

Appreciate a girl!!!-about an article or fwd i read recently

The Article
Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well.
Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements;
One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life; One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your familyname;
One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen;
One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities; Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise;
One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;
One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important, relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her;
One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this...... Please appreciate "HER"

This was the article.Guys who are reading it please dont think that i am blaming.it is what happening in so many women's life.I would like to add some more as well.There are so many problems faced by women.When a girl got married and entering into her in-law's house and something bad happened in the family unfortunately(say an accident or something) the society will blame her.The time when a girl enters the other family after her marriage is very important.The society will determine her luck based on this.I am not blaming the society.It is we who need to change this.So please everybody think about this in your mind.This is also faced by some kids when they are born.Nowadays even when noone tells anything they themselves feel they are unlucky.People should be always optimistic in their thoughts.Please understand whatever destined to happen will happen.So everyone should make a point that we shouldn't blame others.Always be happy and make others happy.

Saturday, February 7, 2009

PG Life and week end cooking Experience

PG(Paying guest) is a very common one in bangalore.Most of the people who come to bangalore initially for work or for search of work will opt for a pg.I think there will be definitely 1 or 2 pg in every street in bangalore.That's a good source of earning as well.The reason why they take up a pg would be the very high advance for houses,difficult to maintain,need to cook everyday,need to take up so many responsibilities.So in this situation they prefer PG.The main advantage of PG is they will take care of everything food,facilities and other maintenance.
PG Life is altogether a new concept to me when i came for last semester internship @ bangalore.But this time i got used to it.The PG which we choose this time was much better than our last PG but a bit expensive too.I liked this PG life because of the fact that 4 of my friends are staying here with me and another 2 became really good friends after coming here.So it is a full time fun.The place will be filled with laughter.Though it's nice we still miss our college hostel life.over there there are thousands of people staying around.we knew most of them and chatting with different set of friends,juniors,seniors and so on.
In this pg they dont give food on week ends.So we started cooking here.All this started because one of our friend she doesn't like the food here.she stayed in the same PG even during last internship.She brought everything from home and has set the kitchen well with everything.
When we go out it is expensive as well as it is not good for health.I know cooking as i was in karaikudi for long time but i haven't done anything @ house since 2 of my grand mas' are there to help my mother.I also always put a scene as though i am studying and will never do anything.
But now i have started cooking and all my friends over here help me with all cutting and other work and the best help they are doing is giving me the full freedom of cooking which is more important for me.So far we have made vegetable biriyani and mushroom biriyani on many weekends.then our items include tomato rice,capsicum pachadi,potato fry,rasam and so on.Now that we started cooking all of my friends are trying out something or the other.One week end when i was not here.I challenged them and they won the game.they made excellent saambar and poriyal it seems.Though it is the first time for all of us.so far it is going good.we haven't wasted anything.
From this all of us realised the difficulties of a mother and perfect home maker.This will definitely help us in the future when we become a home maker.